From practice I went to theory few month ago. I have been very surprised by all important and useful things I could discover:
1) Edging
Scott has been the guy to open my mind. A part of his site describes edging ( advantages, does & doesn't)
- Definition:
Edging is when you jerk off and then stop right before you cum ( non return point = NRP).
- Advantages:
When you repeat this process a few times you build up the intensity of the orgasm: more squirts, more cum; you could blow your load at a higher distance as well.
- My own experience:
I started this technique few months ago. I am still a beginner. My first impression is excellent: I really blow my load at higher distance with more cum. Climax is most probably not stronger but last a longer time; and it is a lot of fun to try to be as close as possible to the NRP by looking at erotic pics, videos or stories; your target is to keep high levels of arousal.
Number of squirts is still more or less the same (4/5 for me) but with higher cum flow and much longer distance. Before I was more trying to get as many orgasms as I could per day ( my maximum is 7); now it is maximum 1-3 per day; my edging is between one hour and two hours; I have not optimized this time and I do not know yet what could be the benefits of longer times.
2) Reverse Kegel Exercise or PC (pubococcygeus muscle) Ballooning
- Definition:
Expand the PC muscle to prevent to go over the non return point.
- Advantages:
To be closer to the NRP without any risk to loss control and to ejaculate.
- How:
We have to know how to expand this muscle: if we go back the the urination exercise, when urinating, the muscle you use to push urine out is the one to be used to expand PC muscle ( PC ballooning). When you know what to do you could make some as if you were holding it in all day or if your in a rush and need to get somewhere so you pee really fast. The muscle used to do that is the PC ballooning. It's a bit harder to notice than the PC flex ( see below).
Making these exercices should make possible to be closer to the non return point or prevent efficially to go over this point by accident.
- My own experience:
No yet a big experience; but I can say I know now to expand this muscle; it is very efficient to stop ejaculation when I have been over the NRP.
Sometimes I could see some precum or even some cum; this precum and cum will reduce the amount of cum at the end.
- What they say:
"I discovered the technique at age 14 and did not know it had a name. At first thought I was damaging something but have used it 1000’s of times since with never a single failure to stop ejaculation dead in its tracks. The reverse kegel uses those muscles that you use in trying to force yourself to piss in a hurry or try to force out a large dry turd.
3) Kegel Exercise or PC (pubococcygeus muscle) tightening or PC flex
- Definition: pelvic floor muscles contraction .
- How: A good way to identify the pelvic muscles - PC (pubococcygeus muscle) - is to stop the flow of urine midstream. This is accomplished by contracting the pelvic floor muscles. Restarting the flow of urine is accomplished by releasing the pelvic floor muscles (PC (pubococcygeus muscle) Ballooning) . An other way when difficult to isolate the PC muscles is to try moving cock when hard. Be aware of what you are doing, and if you feel like you are contracting any other muscles (mainly abdominals and thighs), then you need to relax and start again. Just remember that it might take a few weeks to build up some strength. Keep at it.
When you are sure doing it the right way you can start to train. You can do it every where , when you want. Just don’t overdo it.Typical exercises are:
- Quick pumps: do 15 reps of quick pumps, pause for 30 seconds and repeat. Start at 15 and work your way up to 100 reps two times a day.
- Hold and release: contract the muscle slowly and hold for 5 seconds, release slowly. Work your way to at least 25 reps two times a day.
- Elevator: slowly contract 1/3 of the way, pause, then 2/3 of the way, pause, then all the way. Do 10 reps two times a day.
4) Additional advices
- When you first start feeling your climax begin, completely tighten the pelvic floor muscles -PC (pubococcygeus muscle) - as hard as you possible can. The automatic contractions of the orgasm will inevitably begin and due to the pressure you are exerting with the sustained muscular tension, your load should shoot much farther than usual.
- Involve some sort of anal penetration into your solo sex. Slipping in a butt plug or your fingers will put some pressure on the prostate and urinary tract. A good example of how this works is when you mash your thumb over the opening of a freely flowing water hose. When the pressure releases it makes the water stream shoot farther and harder.
- Increasing and prolonging level of sexual desire stimulation can help to increase semen production. Some of the most powerful ejaculations will occur after a sustained period of high arousal . It is exactly what we do during edging. It is important to collect pics, videos and nice musics to be used during edging time.
- Cum quantity: instead of saving up semen in order to blow a bigger load, it is suggested cuming on a regular basis.
5) Hands free cumming ( without any tool)
- Definition: To get a real orgasm without almost touching our cock
- How: is compulsory high degree of arousal: the mind is the key point . Physically, what to do is the opposite of holding ejaculations by pushing with muscles the prostate ( PC muscle) and by streching cock.
- My own experience: I have not yet succeeded or got a poor ejaculation. I try now by increasing edging time.
In the above video the guy on your left moves his cock because of PC muscle contractions, his balls pulled close to his body and without touching his cock he shoots 8 bursts of white cream with a long distance. Amazing is the number of squirts and the distance with hands free cumming; we normally get something much weaker.
Laurent, I prefer to think of myself as obsessed with masterbation, and love the hours spent edging. Found you through your link to Scott. Curiosity can lead to fascination, then obsession.
ReplyDeleteIt is particularly gratifying to find another with similar obsession and devotion, for prolonged mutual masterbation pleasure sessions.
The naughty boy in me sometimes likes to push by buddy over the edge.
I'm 58. Once met a jogger in gym shorts about my age in an adjoing buddy both with a 2 by 3 foot opening.
We both showed off and felt. When it turned out neither of us was interested in giving oral, we both left the buddy booths and went to different private booths. On entering my booth, I gave him the eye, then left my door unlocked.
I was sitting down, laid back, stoking and edging to male videos, when 5 minutes later I heard my door open behind me.
He disrobed and stood to my left, stoking about 18 inches from my face.
We watched the video, stroking ourselves. I wrapped an appreciative arm and hand around his left thigh and enjoyed playing with the hair on his legs.
Slowly, I moved my face in closer so I could savor his aroma while stroking.
Eventually, I let my nose come to rest in the area of his bush between his balls and right thigh.
We kept edging. Finally, I let the tip of my tongue barely touch the bottom of his right testicle.
He recoiled in pleasure and quite stroking for a few moments lest he go over the edge.
Then he resumed and let me put my nose back in the same spot of his bush.
A few minutes later, I touched the tip of my tongue to the same spot. This time it pushed him over the edge. He shot strait upwards so that his cream landed on his cock, bush and left testicle.
It was a chance encouter, but I am sure he savored and remembered it as much as I.
I was reminded of the event by this hot video of going over the edge without stroking, by the stimulation of their beautiful cock heads to the same sweet spot.